Baby registry traditions are changing, and for good reason. Today’s parents don’t want piles of unopened bottles and duplicate onesies—they want the right things, at the right time, without the overwhelm. That’s why Poppylist works differently. Instead of having every gift arrive at once (or asking guests to haul big boxes into a baby shower), Poppylist lets you receive items when you’re actually ready for them.
But we also know there’s a whole generation of loved ones who love showing up to a shower with a wrapped gift in hand. They’re not wrong—they’re thoughtful. Your welcome message is your chance to bridge both worlds with kindness: explain how Poppylist works, why it helps you prepare more intentionally, and how they can still participate in a way that feels meaningful to them.
Below, you’ll find 10 examples to help you say exactly that—warmly, clearly, and in your own voice:
1. The “We love you, but we also love organization” version
“We’re using Poppylist so everything ships directly to us. It keeps our space (and our brains) clear while we prepare for baby. No need to bring a wrapped gift—your presence at the shower is more than enough.”
2. The “Flexible Gift-Giving" Version
“We’re using Poppylist to keep things simple and organized as we get ready for baby. Most gifts will ship directly to us when we’re ready—but if you’d prefer to bring something small to the shower, feel free! Think sweet, lightweight, easy-to-carry items. Larger gifts or anything with sizing/colors are best sent through Poppylist so we get exactly what we need. Thank you for celebrating with us—we’re so grateful.”
3. The “We’re avoiding overwhelm at all costs” version
“We chose Poppylist because it keeps everything organized for us. Gifts come directly to our home when the timing is right, which saves us from scrambling or overflowing our closet. Thank you for supporting us in a way that feels calm and simple.”
4. The “Shower-friendly but bag-free” version
“If you’re coming to our shower, just bring yourself—no gift bag needed. Poppylist ships everything to us directly, which helps us stay organized while we get ready for baby. We seriously appreciate it!”
5. The “We don’t have room for chaos” version
“We’re using Poppylist so gifts arrive only when we’re ready for them—no early deliveries and no extra clutter. This helps us stay organized as we get the nursery (and our lives!) set up. Thank you for supporting our little family.”
6. The “We want to actually enjoy this” version
“We’re using Poppylist to simplify receiving gifts so we can enjoy this season without the overwhelm. Everything ships directly to our home when we’re ready—so feel free to skip bringing a wrapped gift.”
7. The “We trust you, we trust this system” version
“Your support means so much to us. We're using Poppylist because it helps us get the right items at the right time without any guesswork. Gifts ship directly to us when we’re ready to receive them, which keeps everything easy and stress-free.”
8. The “Thanks for loving us in this way” version
“We’re so grateful you’re here supporting us. Poppylist ships gifts straight to our home when we’re ready, which keeps things organized and helps us focus on what matters most—welcoming this little one.”
9. The “We want fewer steps for everyone involved” version
“We’re using Poppylist to make gifting simple on both sides. No wrapping, no hauling, no tracking down lost boxes. Everything ships directly to us when we’re ready. Thank you for making this so easy.”
10. The “Minimalist, but not rude” version
“We’re keeping it intentional. Poppylist ships everything directly to us when we’re ready—no clutter, no chaos, just what we need, when we need it. Thank you for understanding.”
